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Compatibility & Conflict Report for:

Melanie Griffith
and
Antonio Banderas

Birth data for Melanie:
August 8, 1957
New York, NY

Birth data forAntonio:
August 10, 1960
Malaga, Spain

Created by: MyAstrologyAdvisor.com

Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:

Positions and Data for Melanie:
Sun position is 16 deg. 17 min. of Leo
Moon position is 0 deg. 54 min. of Aquarius
Mercury position is 13 deg. 16 min. of Virgo
Venus position is 16 deg. 57 min. of Virgo
Mars position is 0 deg. 35 min. of Virgo
Jupiter position is 0 deg. 22 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 7 deg. 41 min. of Sagittarius
Uranus position is 7 deg. 52 min. of Leo
Neptune position is 0 deg. 02 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 29 deg. 40 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 18 deg. 43 min. of Taurus
MC position is 28 deg. 30 min. of Capricorn
2nd cusp position is 15 deg. 54 min. of Gemini
3rd cusp position is 7 deg. 13 min. of Cancer
5th cusp position is 24 deg. 22 min. of Leo
6th cusp position is 0 deg. 54 min. of Libra

Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 03:49:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 40 N 42 51 74 W 00 23

Positions and Data for Antonio:
Sun position is 18 deg. 09 min. of Leo
Moon position is 7 deg. 45 min. of Aries
Mercury position is 0 deg. 08 min. of Leo
Venus position is 1 deg. 42 min. of Virgo
Mars position is 5 deg. 40 min. of Gemini
Jupiter position is 23 deg. 56 min. of Sagittarius
Saturn position is 12 deg. 50 min. of Capricorn
Uranus position is 21 deg. 12 min. of Leo
Neptune position is 6 deg. 31 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 5 deg. 16 min. of Virgo
Asc. position is 6 deg. 07 min. of Pisces
MC position is 16 deg. 05 min. of Sagittarius
2nd cusp position is 20 deg. 27 min. of Aries
3rd cusp position is 22 deg. 03 min. of Taurus
5th cusp position is 7 deg. 57 min. of Cancer
6th cusp position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Leo

Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 20:00:00
Time Zone: 1 hours East. Lat & Long: 36 N 43 4 W 25

Dear friends:

Welcome to the Compatibility and Conflict Report and the myriad ways of expressing the continual dance of life. This report is based on methods employed through years of working with couples, observing relationships and analyzing the lives of the famous and infamous. The contacts described within this program are certainly not all the combinations possible between two people. But they are the core patterns of relationship analysis that I begin with in determining areas of compatibility and potential conflict between two people. I analyze these basic points of contact to arrive at my interpretation of what is central for an enduring relationship or for one that teaches something of importance and leaves a lasting impression. Additional parts, patterns and interpretations will be added to this report in the future.

In many of the interpretations, I've described the highest potential that one can strive for with a particular combination. Yet it is only a potential and we are human and have complex emotions and contradictory issues and reactions at any given time in our lives. Use this report as a guideline to make your relationships as rewarding and fulfilling as you possibly can. And know that your relationships are simply mirroring your own soul's struggles. Each relationship will fulfill something within you and challenge you to look at your shadow and transform yourself. Sometimes this means staying with a partner or a relationship and sometimes the learning process requires that you let the relationship go. These decisions are never easy and they should only be made after careful and truthful introspection, reflection and guidance. But ultimately, these decisions are yours and yours alone to make. Remember that variety is the spice of life and that although you may have some difficult areas of relating with a partner, it is in those areas that you can learn the most about yourself and others and grow in wisdom. It would be a mistake to look for a partner with whom you have no disagreements at all and this kind of relationship is a fantasy, rarely if ever, a reality.

Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions

This section is based on the idea that there are three basic needs in every relationship:

* Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality.
* Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice versa.

The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects between their charts.

Melanie's Moon Trine Antonio's Mars:

You feel more energized, even exhilarated, when you are together. In fact, the intent of this aspect is to activate your moods and stimulate new feelings in each other. Perhaps, even feelings you have never felt before or not in a long time. There is always likely to be a charge of energy between you and you have a way of reaching each other on a deeply emotional level. You will tend to generate energy when you are together the two of you can be counted upon to take action or be in the lead, when you are part of a group. In fact, you may be involved in social causes or any project where goal-setting and forward progress is necessary. There is a healthy, normal tendency to confront issues that arise between you. Resolving conflict will be easier to handle with this aspect. Although there is a marvelous naturally occurring energy between you, don’t allow habit to make it dull. Be sure to plan new or physical activities together to regenerate and rejuvenate your relationship and keep it fully alive. With a bit of conscious attention, this aspect is excellent for maintaining newness in your day-to-day life with each other. You will both want to create an atmosphere of aliveness and vitality when you are together. The expression of emotion between you is typically direct or candid and in that way involves a healthy release of emotions.

Antonio's Moon Trine Melanie's Saturn:

The intention behind this aspect is building strong, lasting foundations and developing and maintaining emotional and material security. Mutual support for and commitment to the rules you’ve agreed to for your relationship will be easier to keep and are valuable to both of you. There is a natural tolerance for the inevitable problems of life and a decided lack of whining. Resolving issues and finding solutions together will become a core talent. Just be sure you don’t make more problems for yourselves because you’re so good at dealing with them or take on more responsibility than you ought. Others will find you a dependable pair and will look up to you and respect you. It would be easy for you, as a team, to take a leadership role of some kind in the community, since organization, reliability and planning are natural talents for you. This aspect contributes to longevity because the inclination to build a solid relationship is inherent in the combination. There is a greater chance of permanence for all your endeavors together because of the time, care and attention you put into them. With your skills of maintenance and self-improvement, you will accomplish much to ensure the longevity of your bond.

Antonio's Mars Trine Melanie's Jupiter:

Risk, adventure and learning are important ingredients in your life together. The intent of this aspect is to broaden your horizons and your experiences through shared inquiry. You are meant to understand your limits by exceeding them in various ways in the course of your relationship with each other. Traveling and physical activities are likely important features of being together since there is a natural restlessness to the aspect. It’s possible you could give in to too much laziness but it will bottle up your positive output. The mind/body balance is one of the messages of this energetic combination. You are together to motivate, expand and develop your abilities, to take charge and lead yourselves or others into new territories of experience -- physically, mentally, even spiritually. You can spread optimism according to your means, and you may be philanthropic. There’s great joy and optimism in this combination and the two of you will continually see the silver lining in any black clouds that drift your way.

Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You

These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other and simply understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or problems.

Antonio's Moon in Aries, and Melanie's is in Aquarius:

You are each blessed with a natural, easygoing and similar emotional style. You share some of the same rhythms and habits that will make daily contact more comfortable for each of you. Timing will not be as much of an issue, in that you can more easily and quickly respond to each other's emotional levels of excitement or energy and empathize with each other's disappointments, in ways that both of you feel met by the other. You can fire each other up and cool each other down because you'll frequently be riding the same emotional wave. You're able to support each other when feelings overflow. Basically, you both seek the same kinds of comforts and can relate easily to each other's peculiarities. In fact, you can accommodate your partner's idiosyncrasies with humor and even turn them into jokes that become part of the private fabric of your relationship life. If you share living space, you are likely to have domestic tastes that match easily. Environments that comfort and support you are more often than not, shared by your partner. Social connections and the types of people you choose to interact with will be similar. And you will appreciate the fact that you love the same interests and are able to share and enjoy numerous different activities together. This is not to say that at times you won't be totally perplexed by each other's reactions because there are other factors in each of your personalities that must be considered. Also, if your upbringing is very different, it will add to the emotional adjustments you will need to make. Still, on the whole it seems easier for the two of you to make these adjustments.

Antonio's Mercury in Leo, and Melanie's is in Virgo:

Although you are attracted to each other, there are times when one of you will have great difficulty in figuring out where the other is coming from and what she (or he) is trying to tell you. Your styles of communication can be very different. The premises upon which you base your reasoning or the logic you use will often perplex your partner. Especially if you have to decide on projects or activities together, your differences can quickly become an issue between you. Talking things through slowly, step by step, will help each of you to understand how the other arrived at his (or her) opinion or conclusion. This will take patience but in the end will be worth it. What's more, by taking the time to really understand how your partner is thinking, you can not only learn something important about your partner but also get a different perspective yourself. You will also learn how your communication affects others, since your partner is probably not the only one who can't always understand what you're trying to say or figure out your logic. You've attracted this kind of relationship exactly for the purpose of fine tuning your thought processes and becoming more adept and flexible in the ways you have of communicating with others. This will be doubly useful if you are in a business that requires writing or regularly communicating with others.

Chapter 3: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes

This section interprets the closest connections between your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or central themes of your relationships and the reason you have come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life together.

Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included because these close connections pertain to the central learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly influenced by each other in the areas described. Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group, both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging ones. Another thing -- it's possible with both types of aspects that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression of each combination. This is the learning curve and this bestows wisdom.

Antonio's Mercury Square Melanie's Neptune (challenging aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship themes concern imagination, compassion, understanding, faith and inspiration. The arts and music in some form will be a mainstay in your lives.

Challenging aspects: Your desire for peace and harmony can also create a difficulty with boundaries for you. You will have to be careful so you don't play the victim by involving yourself needlessly in unfortunate circumstances or allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. Make sure your self-esteem is healthy and that you tell others how you wish to be treated. You will always have a soft spot for those who are hurt or in need, and serving through organizations or agencies that provide services for such people can be a way to strengthen yourself. Music and art will inspire and uplift you.

Easier aspects: There is a gentleness and affection that you easily express as partners. You have a great capacity to forgive and make allowances for the foibles and failings of others. You can inspire and smooth over the inevitable hurts and pains of life through understanding and compassion. Being of service or providing a service for caring or inspiration is probably a strong part of your lives. Your belief in a unifying life principle leads you to a spiritual practice of your choice. Participation and appreciation of the arts is vital in your lives.

Antonio's Moon Trine Melanie's Saturn (easier aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is one of commitment, protection and responsibility. You tend to form habits for security and your associations are typically with people that have proven their trustworthiness.

Easier aspects: Emotionally, you respond best when you feel safe, secure and comfortable. You have very clear definitions of the pattern of your daily life and you seek quality over quantity. Social responsibility is high and you often take on extra tasks both at home or at work. You probably have a strong work ethic, with a focus on excellence. You prefer a quieter, more secure lifestyle and a home that is orderly but not overly ornate.

Challenging aspects: Your life can have more than the average number of challenges. Often these challenges come through family or work responsibilities. Because of this, your time is precious and you never seem to have enough of it. To alleviate the burdens on you, think seriously before you take on extra claims on your time and remind yourself of the consequences of overload. Other commitments can, in fact, keep you from creating the quality relationships you want. Somehow, you may feel that you must prove yourself by taking on more tasks but ultimately you will need to take greater responsibility for the quality of your life and have more open spaces for relaxation.

Antonio's Moon Trine Melanie's Uranus (easier aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme revolves around the need for freedom, independence, truthfulness and creative self-expression. Human rights and basic freedoms for all people are recurring issues.

Easier aspects: Yours is not a conventional lifestyle, nor do you even want that. You are happiest when you've created a pattern of living that suits your individual tastes. You are original, eclectic and even a bit eccentric in your approach to life and in the activities and friendships you seek. Others will be attracted to your sparkle, your straightforwardness and your sense of fun. You strive to be alert to community and global events and are interested or involved in human rights activism. Your lives are peppered with excitement and creative flair.

Challenging aspects: Sometimes the desire for excitement in your life becomes too dramatic or even an unwanted disruption. You often find yourselves in controversial or uncomfortable situations with others. You are creative and innovative in your outlook and often serve as catalysts to increase awareness in a situation that is stuck. At times, you can be too blunt or too abrupt and you will antagonize others. Your moods can be erratic, which makes people feel uncertain of you, and your rebelliousness can alienate people. Make sure you have enough unstructured time in your life so that you can feel free and independent.

Antonio's Mercury Sextile Melanie's Jupiter (easier aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is gaining wisdom through a wide range of learning experiences. By taking risks, exploring and adventuring, you seek to broaden your knowledge base and exercise your mind and body.

Easier aspects: There's a jubilant, generous energy that surrounds you. The two of you are energetic and enjoy many and varied activities. You appear to have reached a good balance between the mental and physical. You prefer to be active and stimulated but you will favor either mental activity or physical activity a bit more. Living life fully is clearly your goal. You generate opportunities while at the same time being generous with your own resources. Teaching, writing, reading or traveling are among your favored activities. You will remain youthful with your thirst to know and wisdom earned.

Challenging aspects: Your enthusiasm can run out of control at times and you will find yourselves overwhelmed by promises you've made or resources you've spent. Although you are generous, you can splurge to a fault and create problems for yourselves. Keep in mind your primary goals and your security needs. There is a tendency to exaggerate and embellish for effect in your communication. Why not put this skill to positive use in writing, storytelling or the dramatic arts?

Melanie's Mercury Trine Antonio's Saturn (easier aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme concerns seriousness of purpose and commitment, an exact or precise way of speaking, organization, a fondness for science, history or math and an appreciation for order.

Easier aspects: Establishing habits that provide security, familiarity and comfort in your lives and relationship is a primary concern, everything else is secondary. Your communication with each other is not frivolous and you dislike small talk; instead, you prefer to discuss topics that are substantial and significant. You enjoy planning how things will be done before actually doing them and, especially before traveling. Learning from each other, appreciating and being proud of each other's expertise and achievements are important.

Challenging aspects: There are times when you will feel stifled or even frustrated in your desire to communicate with each other. You may complain that your partner won't listen or hear what you have to say. Shifting these blocks to your communication flow is important to address as soon as possible, before you settle into negative ways. Old habits and preconceived expectations or lack of trust can be what prevent you from connecting in the way you would like. Seek professional advice to uncover the roots of your miscommunication. Understanding each other's struggles to communicate will help.

Melanie's Moon Opp Antonio's Mercury (challenging aspect):

If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship themes are emotional and mental communication and having a network of friends. You will communicate intuitively and will enjoy discussing your feelings. You tend to be honest and matter-of-fact about the state of your emotions.

Challenging aspects: There are times, no matter how hard you try, that you will simply talk past each other and fail to understand what the other person is trying to communicate. This can be extremely frustrating. Take your time, breathe and keep trying to state things in different ways until you find that your partner understands what you mean. Fortunately, you have the impetus to want to communicate, so with some trial-and-error you will find the way.

Easier aspects: It's very possible that you will find yourselves talking endlessly about many different topics. Your relationship is healthier when you have a free flow of communication and emotional release. You will enjoy being around others who like to speak freely and often on many different topics. It's possible that at least one of you is a writer or teacher or has a career in communications.